In this essay I am going to address a complex ethical dilemma, I will do this by looking at both sides of the argument, I will conclude by giving my opinion. Everyone does have the right to be a parent; there are many reasons for this side of the argument. Firstly, it is a natural urge for humans to want to have a baby and become a parent as it is in everyday life, it is always around us and happening around the world, when a new life is born it is simply because it is a natural urge to start a family and settle down as parents and to have the traditional family life.
Secondly, if no human wanted to become parents the human race would die out within years. It is extremely important that everyone does have the right to become a parent as, if people did not, the human race would die out and there would not be a future. My last point for why everyone has the right to be a parent is that young people are the future. Without them there would be no hope for the world, if there were not as many young people the world would struggle to meet objectives and the population would get lower and lower and eventually die out.
These are the reason why I believe that everyone does have the right to become a parent. Not everyone has the right to be a parent; again, there are many reasons for this side of the argument. Firstly, if you are in poverty it is simply not fair to bring another human into the world that the parents are struggling in; the parents must be able to care and look after the child well before they consider having a child, there are thousands of children dying every day in Africa due to poverty and it is not fair to bring them into the world to suffer.
The second point for this side of the argument is that not everyone has the right to become a parent because people who are having sex at a young age very often do not know the risks of sex and how easy it is to become pregnant. Young people do not have the right to become a parent too young an age. It is not fair to bring the child into the world where the baby’s parents cannot look after and care for it properly. Parents at such a young age often just give up the child and place the baby into care and leave the baby for someone else to care for.
This is not fair on the child as it will have a life of neglect and pain just because the parents could not cope with them at their birth as they are simply too young. Another side to this argument, is that there are people who are dependent on drugs and alcohol. This is often due to a bad past or up-bringing. These people often forget who they are and forget their responsibilities. How can these people bring up a baby when they don’t know who they are as a person?
These people tend to spend every penny possible on their drugs and do this to block out what has happened to them. This would not be fair on the child as they would be also blocked out from their parents’ lives. Children also pick up from a very young age what is right and wrong, if they see their parents taking drugs, drinking etc, they would pick this up and do the same later on in life. Lastly, there are people in the world who are too interested in children, they are known as paedophiles.
They take a sexual interest in children. It is these people who do not have the right to become parents. How can a known paedophile become a parent to a child when they have been convicted for having a sexual interest in children at the same age as their own. The child would be in danger. These reasons are why I believe that not everyone has the right to be a parent. I have now looked at both sides of the argument, why everyone does have the right to be a parent and also why not everyone has the right to become a parent.
I believe that not everyone has the right to be a parent, this is because of the reasons I stated earlier, due to the poverty in the world, young parents who struggle coping with the child and lastly because of paedophiles. I have strong views on why they do not have the right to become parents, I believe that not everyone has the right to become parents because I believe it is not fair on the child to be brought into a world of pain, neglect and suffering. The child would grow up wondering what it has done wrong when it is not the child’s fault and they often put the blame on themselves when it is not them, it’s the parents’ selfishness.